Serena Nanda is a professor of Anthropology. She visited different parts of India during her fieldwork and observed that almost all marriages are arranged in India. As an American woman, she found the custom of arranged marriage oppressive. She couldn’t believe how intelligent young woman would be ready for marriage with a man whom she doesn’t know. Gradually her opinion changed when she interacted with a number of Indian young girls. She asked several questions to a college graduate named Sita and from her response she learned that arranged marriage is too important. In India, parents choose a partner for their son or daughter because they are more experienced. They put many things into consideration, such as the same caste, economic status, appearance, education, and their family’s reputation. Usually, the bride and groom do not meet before the marriage although in some cases it is possible for them to meet briefly if the parents believe the marriage is suitable. If the pa...